Meaning: you can help someone find something but you can’t make him take advantage of it. Use examples.
Rewrite 1: you can take a horse to the hay, but you can’t make him eat it
Rewrite 2: you can lead a cat to the litter box, but you can’t make her use it
Rewrite 3: even a dog on a leash doesn’t always want to walk
Rewrite 4: you can make some people leaders but they still want to follow
Comment: Rewriting this cliché can open a slew of different possibilities, and they don’t all have to follow the logical course. Rewrites 3 and 4 are good examples.
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